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FX Love Story series 2026 — John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette

I’ll be straight with you: Love Story, the FX series that dropped in 2026, was not on my radar.

I’m from the same generation as John F. Kennedy Jr. — the one everyone called John John — which means I didn’t need a prestige TV series to tell me about his life. I lived through it, in real time, through magazine covers and breaking news and that suffocating feeling of watching a tragedy unfold in slow motion. The crash. The search. The grief. So why would I willingly sit down and watch it all again, packaged in cinematic lighting and a carefully curated soundtrack?

Because of two words: Love Story.

A Title Is Never Neutral

Think about what the show isn’t called.

It’s not The Last Flight. Not Camelot’s End. Not John and Carolyn. Not even something elegant and ambiguous like July 1999.

It’s Love Story — which is one of the most loaded phrases in the Western cultural imagination. It promises you something. It promises you a beginning, a middle, and — here’s the catch — an ending that means something. It promises Cinderella. It promises Romeo and Juliet (and yes, I know how that ends, thank you very much, but we romanticise it anyway). The title insists on a frame before the first scene even begins. It tells you: this was a love story. It was epic. It was fated. It was worth watching. And that’s the first act of narrative construction I want to talk about — because what the FX series does is build a myth around two real people who never got to write their own ending.

 

 

John F. Kennedy Jr and Carolyn Bessette

The Kennedy Myth Machine (And Why It Never Stops Running)

John John’s life was, functionally, a real-time documentary before anyone knew what that was. Born under a flashbulb. Photographed at three years old saluting his father’s coffin — an image that entered the collective unconscious and never left. Grew up to be impossibly handsome, impossibly well-educated, impossibly everything, and every step of the way, the cameras were there.

His life had a narrative before he was old enough to choose one.

And Carolyn? The series shows us a woman who enters this gravitational field. Brilliant, beautiful, fiercely private, she inevitably gets shaped by it. You can watch her becoming the character the story requires rather than the person she might have chosen to be. The modern prince needs his princess. The myth needs its heroine. The love story needs its second lead.

She knew it. By all accounts, she resisted it. And still, she was absorbed. This is not a criticism of the series. It’s actually its most honest moment.

 

The Curse, the Greeks, and What We Actually Inherit

The plane went down in 1999 and, right on cue, the press resurrected the Kennedy curse.

I don’t believe in curses. Not in the cosmic sense, not in the “the gods are punishing this family” sense. But I believe — deeply, with everything I know about writing and narrative and the way stories shape human behaviour — that internalized narratives are more powerful than any curse.

The Greeks understood fate as something external. Immovable. Imposed by the gods, written in the stars, non-negotiable. In Oedipus Rex, every attempt to escape the prophecy is the very road that leads straight to it. The tragedy isn’t that Oedipus is weak — it’s that he never had a chance. The ending was already written.

We don’t live in that world. But here’s what I think does happen, and it’s subtler and more interesting than divine punishment: When you grow up inside a story — when your family carries a mythology, when the media codes every new loss as “the curse strikes again,” when the very word Kennedy arrives pre-loaded with tragedy — you start to make choices that confirm the narrative. Not because you’re stupid or passive. Because that’s what stories do. They create grooves. They make certain paths feel inevitable.

Oedipus didn’t know he was inside a myth. That’s the tragedy of his tragedy.

We know. And that changes everything.

The Thing That Actually Gives Us Agency

Here’s what I’ve learned — through writing, through therapy, through the years of sitting with other people’s stories and my own — about the moment things shift:

It’s not when you “escape” the narrative. You can’t always do that.

It’s when you name it.

The moment you can say “ah, this is the story I’ve been living inside — this is the frame I inherited, the mythology I absorbed, the script I’ve been performing without auditioning for the role” — that’s the moment the grip loosens, even a little.

John-John grew up being told, in a thousand subtle and not-so-subtle ways, that he was a Kennedy, and Kennedys were marked. Carolyn entered a story that was already in motion, already cast, already titled. Neither of them had the luxury of stepping outside it and asking: “whose story is this, really?”

We do. That’s the underrated gift of self-awareness — not that it protects you from pain, but that it lets you choose your pain consciously rather than sleepwalking into someone else’s script.

So What Do We Do With Love Story (The Show)?

Watch it if it calls to you. But watch it the way I’d ask you to watch anything that presents a real life as a coherent narrative: with one eye on the story, and one eye on the *storytelling*.

Notice how the title frames everything before a single frame runs. Notice which choices are presented as inevitable, which as romantic, and which as doomed. Notice what Carolyn’s interiority costs to tell, and how much of it remains opaque because the series — like the culture itself — is ultimately more interested in the myth than the woman.

And then, when the credits roll, ask yourself: “What title would I give the story I’m living right now?”

Not the story your family assigned you. Not the one the culture is writing about people who look like you, love like you, age like you. The one you would write, if you held the pen.

Because in the end — and this is the thing I believe with everything I have — the narrator shapes the story more than the events do.

You are the narrator.

Co-Creative Writing  — a tool for consciousness, one story at a time.

 

Quem diria, tanta aversão à exposição e aqui estou eu, tão excitada, por falar em praça pública. Sempre tive dificuldade com o julgamento alheio. Durante um teste de vídeo para o Fantástico, quando eu tinha uns 30 anos, todo o lado esquerdo do meu rosto paralisou de tanta tensão. Se eu não estivesse tão preocupada com o julgamento alheio, provavelmente teria me saído muito bem. Hoje, vejo a diversidade crescendo no jornalismo televisivo e constato como muita coisa melhorou nos últimos anos.

Naquela ocasião, eu botava uma barra tão alta pra mim mesma, mas tão alta, que só a perfeição era aceitável. Eu não sei como teria sido minha vida se eu tivesse passado naquele teste, mas tenho tantos interesses que também gosto da versão que foi de fato vivida por mim e cujas experiências me transformaram (com a minha inteira participação e interpretação) no que sou agora.

Agora estou reescrevendo, de várias formas e por ângulos diversos, a minha história. Dessa maneira, acredito que ajudo a mim e a outras pessoas. Trata-se de um projeto experimental, uma espécie de alquimia da palavra, mas não só da palavra. Estou escrevendo, mas também estou imaginando outras formas de expressão. Afinal, somos seres com potencial infinito e não precisamos nos limitar.

Há alguns anos venho tentando ouvir meu coração, buscando meu real propósito, minha verdade. E, de repente, em 2019, tudo ficou claro. Abri uma frestinha no meu coração, e aproveitei para entrar e perceber como me sinto bem aqui dentro. Quando isso aconteceu, havia um homem muito presente na minha vida. Então, essa emoção maravilhosa que me fez chorar de felicidade, se misturou com o que eu sinto ou sentia por ele, e embolou tudo, como a gente se embola quando leva um caldo de uma onda e vem rolando com ela de volta à areia.

De repente, meu sentimento por ele se tornou arrebatador e eu acreditei que a recíproca era verdadeira. Aquele amor intenso e apaixonado brotou no meu coração depois de muitas décadas adormecido. Tive a sensação de estar entrando no meu coração. Aí eu relaxei e gozei de verdade, como há tempos não gozava.

Infelizmente, ainda não aprendi a andar por aí de coração aberto. Meu ego não me deixa. Então, apelei para Sofia, que volta depois de nove anos. Sofia é mais que um alter-ego, eu conto com ela para me salvar quando sinto que posso me perder nesse espaço de vulnerabilidade. Sofia é minha “fórmula de emergência” : Sofia-rescue.  

Sem defesas, quero curtir essa onda boa que a gente só encontra quando se permite ficar vulnerável. A música me leva para esse lugar. Então dei continuidade a história de Sofia de uma maneira bem peculiar, escolhendo uma trilha sonora que traduz o atual estado de espírito da minha personagem. Estou muito apaixonada por ter me reencontrado com a minha verdade ( que sempre foi e será uma só) para conseguir me separar da Sofia.

Mas ela é tão danadinha que não consigo manter minha rédea curta e, quando vejo, ela está fazendo e falando o que quer sem que eu possa controlá-la. Então, por favor, se Sofia falar verdades inconvenientes, não me responsabilizem. Ela é essa pessoa: intensa, sem censura, querendo cada vez mais se aprofundar na própria verdade. Tanto que Sofia abriu a guarda e, quando viu, estava apaixonada. Nesse estado de “demência”, oxitocinas completamente baratinadas, nessa entrega total absoluta.

Ah, não sei se vocês se lembram do livro que Sofia, eu e Consuelo Dieguez lançamos em 2010 #seuprincipepodeserumacinderela. Sofia, como uma das duas autoras, também teve um “piripaque”. E é essa outra história que vou contar.